One of the conditions most difficult to tolerate is the feeling to count with a pair and at the same time to undergo solitude. To have the necessity to be single is a natural situation in the human life. By short whiles we longed for to count on moments of privacy with we ourself. In a world as it is the one of today, plagued of noises, visual and auditory contamination, it is difficult to find times of silence and solitude. He is essential then, to isolate itself to enter calm and communion with one same one.
By all means that is healthy to renew in these rats to be solo. Nevertheless, when we have a pair which we loved so much but that at the same time we felt single, without support, outside its company and of its affective, then disposition that feeling of solitude eats away to us, since a part of we ourself cries out to live accompanied, cautious, taken care of, wanted and appreciated by our average orange. To live on a two is a experience that complements the same sense of our existence, is the possibility even of giving an intention to the existence and, until extending in the species, if we have decided to have children. But when this experience of pair, far from to complement takes me time and time again to the solitude suffering, is an attention call to redefine the course of the relation. When one of the members of the pair or both is undergoing this sensation surely are in a place within their relation, in which more than the expression of the love, conditions of indifference, hostilities are lived, resentments nonspoken, fights of being able, lack of interest in the life of the pair, or in the interests of some of the members of the same. It is to feel the same to count on somebody and at the same time not to have it, so absent anguish affectively speaking. .